The man that you love wants a good pegging and you intend to give him strap-on dildo action that compares to nothing he’s ever experienced before. That’s a good attitude—you want pegging to be pleasurable for both of you. Still, you might be unclear on what sensual delights your man wants from his anal strap-on experience. Let’s talk about how to show him the anal pleasure that he’s after.

Before engaging in any dildo play with him, make sure that your strap-on dildo has a generous application of lube. The rectum doesn’t produce its own natural lubricant, so even if he’s not an anal virgin, you’ll need a thick application of lubricant to ensure that the anal strap-on dildo penetration to come will be smooth sailing.

A good prostate orgasm would delight your lover to no end, so having a dildo fastened to your strap-on specifically designed for p-spot stimulation would be ideal. Many dildos are fashioned with the curve and reach to effectively keep the p-spot stimulation coming with every one of your rhythmic thrusts. Most of these dildos will be compatible with strap-on harnesses, but check to see if you’ve got the right o-ring to make the connection. You can get o-rings in any size you need from your favorite retailer, so there’s no problem there.

There’s still more to anal strap-on dildo sex than the p-spot—many men simply enjoy stimulation of all the sensitive nerve clusters in their rectum. That alone can be a heady sensual rush. So get a dildo that’s got the length and girth to fill him fully without being too large for him to take comfortably. It’s always more fun to choose your strap-on dildos together, so be sure to share your dildo shopping experience with him.

Great gear is part of having great anal strap-on dildo sex, but the best sex begins and ends with communication. Involve yourself with the total experience of his anal experience and your strap-on sessions will be nothing short of awesome.