There’s a lot that goes into pegging to make it so electrifyingly hot and erotic—the quality of the strap-on harness and dildo, using the right amount of lubrication, and getting your bend-over-boyfriend warmed up with some quality foreplay come to mind. Just don’t forget about the importance of a good pegging position. Not only do you want anal penetration to be comfortable for your man, but you want a position that will give him the maximum thrill and arousal from being on the receiving end of pegging, and when you have a pegging position that gives your man some serious p-spot stimulation, you’ve got something magic going on.

So what position is best at working this magic? Well, the doggie-style position may seem like a played-out anal cliché, but it acquired its enduring popularity for a reason. You’ve got a clear and easy anal entry, particularly important if this is his first time experiencing pegging, and it’s easy to treat his prostate to the attention it deserves. You can’t go wrong with the comfort and pleasure the doggie-style position affords.

For the more advanced bend over boyfriend enthusiasts, why not let him get on top in a variant of the cowgirl position. It takes some strength and endurance to get the most sensual satisfaction from this position, but it also allows him to control the depth and pace of penetration. Besides, go on and admit it. You always wondered what the cowgirl would be like if your positions were reversed.

Try having him lie on your back and put his legs on your shoulders. This is going to take some strength and endurance on your part this time, but it also makes for easy, comfortable penetration sure to provide the p-spot excitement that’ll leave him breathless.

The range of great pegging positions is only limited by your imagination. Try the ones we’ve articulated. Try some that come from your own fevered imagination. Experiment, have fun, and make the positions you love most part of your pegging repertoire.